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7 Ways to DEAL With FAILURE – #7Ways

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✎ 7 Ways to deal with failure:
1) Change your perspective
2) Fail more
3) Practice being uncomfortable
4) Believe in yourself
5) Focus on the lesson learned
6) Have honest conversations
7) Decide to live your life

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Comments to 7 Ways to DEAL With FAILURE – #7Ways

  • Needed this Evan Great video again for Today's message. THANKS again for Today's outing video again Evan.

    Troy Hagen September 27, 2017 4:09 PM Reply
  • Oh wow! I needed to hear and realise this today.Thanks, Evan! <3

    Nana Benjaminsdottir September 27, 2017 4:20 PM Reply
  • Thanks for this video. I just relapsed again and am really down. I questioned everything. Now after watching this video, I got some self respect back.

    Ironbull200 September 27, 2017 4:23 PM Reply
  • Spikle (however you would spell it) I could see it coined as a new word. LolAwesome tips. Thank you. 🙂

    Zoe Carlson September 27, 2017 4:25 PM Reply
  • #spikel 😛 thank you guys !

    A G September 27, 2017 4:30 PM Reply
  • Live your life. Living your life is loving your life. Failed, keep on living and loving life. #BTA66

    The Howling Chihuahua September 27, 2017 4:35 PM Reply
  • wen i tell them this is ma lyf mum wont understand she says tht she knws it beter ,i am always playing others opinions n i hate it

    Betrant TARAJI September 27, 2017 4:51 PM Reply
  • Eli (my 13 year old son), I have a question for you. What if I try something and it doesn’t work? If you make only one attempt at a worthy objective, you are not committed. Your fear of embarrassment is stronger than your level of commitment. Successful people don’t get embarrassed, they get more determined! To succeed you must continuously fine tune, assess, make a new plan with a new starting line, and take more action. As Zig Zigler famously said: Anything worth doing is worth doing poorly until you can learn to do it well. Too often, people feel embarrassed because something wasn’t wildly successful on their first effort. FAILURE IS AN EVENT, NOT A PERSON. Remember, if failure is not an option, success isn’t either. The fear of embarrassment often leads to this type of thinking: Nothing ventured, nothing lost. When you play not to lose you usually lose anyway. And, most importantly, you never move forward if you don’t try to move forward. You won’t get embarrassed by not trying. What you do get is a plaid jacket that they give to members of the Mediocrity Hall of Fame. Trust me, you won’t look good in plaid. In today’s world of multi-distracting ourselves by unsuccessfully attempting to multi-task, the prevailing attitude is: If at first you don’t succeed, you probably don’t have the ability. If Rome wasn’t built in a day, then you probably don’t have the ability. So why try? Commitment, my friend. Focus, my son. Clarity, young man. Singleness of purpose. Why don’t people copy the minority that is successful (as nature intended)? We, as a society, value natural, effortless accomplishment over achievement through effort. There is no such thing as effortless achievement. Guess why Steph Curry is such a good shooter? Or why Tony Robbins is such a good speaker? They appear to be performing effortlessly. They continually stretch themselves, behind the scenes, with new ideas, techniques, and by reviewing their imperfect performances to make themselves seem more natural. Back in the day, when I was selling, we were always given a sales pitch. One of the reasons that the 80/20 rule is so prominent in sales is because some people are more “natural” sales people than others. BALONEY! If you knew the hours and hours of practice it takes to become a good salesperson, you would discover that there is no such thing as a natural salesperson. I was fortunate to have some great mentors. I was fortunate that they taught me to use a tape recorder and listen to myself selling. Watching yourself on a videotape is even better. There are so many aspects to being a great salesperson such as making appointments, securing prospects, getting referrals, using your hands and your eyes, smiling, putting the client at ease, posture, and on and on. The devil is in the details. Of course, that’s where excellence hides as well. Studying the masters is the key to success in everything. Here is my major point. It is natural to find a successful person, the 5%er, and copy what they do to be an outstanding achiever. I say this because nature has offspring copy their more successful parents at birth and in childhood to survive and thrive. When you are pursuing “unchartered” territory, copy the formula of those that pursued “unchartered” territory before you. Plan, do, review, be committed and expect temporary failure. It is part of the process. It is a law of nature. Do not let failure deter you from your committed outcome but rather use it as inspiration to continue. Don’t feel that you always must follow the crowd. A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back to the crowd. Do not become embarrassed when you are not perfect in your performance. Copy the 5%ers that realize success is the constant correction of a series of failures. Do not ever feel that your education is complete. Continually stretch yourself to develop new skills. Remember to drill, practice, rehearse, and review to make your movements seem natural and smooth to others. Then do it again! It is necessary to tell you some of the “why’s and because’s” people are unable to become successful. We are human and subject not only to the frailties of our species but also the shortcomings of the society that we live in (and its influences). My goal is to inoculate you from copying mediocrity by exposing the virus so that you may recognize it when you see it. And, as always, Eli (my 13 year old son), to Educate, Lead, and Inspire. PAY ATTENTION TO SUCCESS AND COPY IT.

    PETER Avergun September 27, 2017 4:55 PM Reply
  • Wow, i was thinking about this today, my advice would be to not listen your negative interior voice, just like you said in the tip #5 you have to learn from your mistakes but once you do, delete the negative experience associated with that thought and just focus on the lesson learned. Another very important thing is to make sure you congrat yourself once you achieve your goal so you recognize your victory, but also to keep repeating the good habits that you just learned.

    Emanuele September 27, 2017 4:58 PM Reply
  • Failure is 1st step for success

    Gundla Mahesh September 27, 2017 5:01 PM Reply
  • Yes is normal for all people fail but its how you get up and try it again with different perspective

    jorge Pimentel September 27, 2017 5:48 PM Reply
  • Evan's the greatest man

    Example DG20 September 27, 2017 6:15 PM Reply
  • "You're most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning." – Bill Gates. Learn from your failures.

    Mike Luzio September 27, 2017 6:38 PM Reply
  • Amazing video! 🙂

    Braulio Damian Calzato September 27, 2017 7:11 PM Reply
  • Check out my NEWEST video: https://goo.gl/E0eE6m

    Evan Carmichael September 27, 2017 7:23 PM Reply
  • Evan! Just awesome advice! Thank you!

    Lucie B Lindner September 27, 2017 7:35 PM Reply
  • "Success is the hangover of failure"

    Astrid Bennett September 27, 2017 7:43 PM Reply
  • You're looking well rested & healthy Evan! You're skin is glowing! Did you get a tan or something?Anyways, thanks for all your amazing content. You videos have really changed my perspective on a lot of things.

    joy christian September 27, 2017 7:44 PM Reply
  • I just shared this on Totally InspiredMind.com.BTW Evan, my readership is now close to 100 countries monthly.

    Paulette Le Pore Motzko September 27, 2017 8:11 PM Reply
  • I found you on Twitter and if you follow me PollyMotzko there then we can send messages back and forth- private messages on Twitter. Bravo on a standing ovation to all of your efforts Evan. I have people asking me to do videos and I don't ever seem to have anybody to hold the camera for me so I'm just going to start doing it myself I see lots of my friends that I know that are in the blogging industry and web sites, they do videos it doesn't matter what it is but just either hold the camera put on the tripod but just do it. I can be waiting forever for mr. Right to come along or a person to hold the camera for me common I just don't think they're ever going to come along unless I hire a videographer at 70 bucks an hour, which I'd just soon not

    Paulette Le Pore Motzko September 27, 2017 8:13 PM Reply
  • Show me some moves

    Vivek Jadhav September 27, 2017 8:36 PM Reply
  • I really like that I should try and "Fail More". Thanks for this 7 Ways series Evan! #TBA2 #Heart 👍🙂👍

    Adventures In Wet Shaving September 27, 2017 8:40 PM Reply
  • Liked this one a lot! The points, the pacing, the way it was edited, the way you created a new word… really great stuff!My favorite was number 6 “have honest conversations”. I’ve experienced fear of failure not from the failure itself but about what those closest to me would think. You’re 100% right that the way through that fear is to have honest conversations with those people. MOST OF THE TIME (about 98.3% of the time) those closest to us will be supportive.

    ChartYourTrade September 27, 2017 8:56 PM Reply
  • Potential opinion is in the mind. Go ahead and proceed.

    Baldeep Birak September 27, 2017 8:58 PM Reply
  • 3:15 to 6:37 6:37 to 8:30

    Ptce Hpe September 27, 2017 9:55 PM Reply
  • Decide to live your life is the one that resonated with me. I'm in my 60's and always done what was expected of me and my life has been very unhappy. Working through what I have to do to live 'my' life. Don't know how to separate societal expectation from my dreams. Afraid I'll get it wrong and be worse off but even more afraid that I will not get the courage to do it and waste what is left of my life.

    Irene Ewens September 27, 2017 10:27 PM Reply
  • Practice being uncomfortable is my favorite advice👍 great video

    Geetanshu Sawai September 27, 2017 11:12 PM Reply
  • #7 is empowering to me.

    Supernal Phantasia September 28, 2017 12:31 AM Reply
  • Practice being uncomfortable is my all time favorite! :DP.s. Always amazing to see Lily! ^^ #BTA88 <3

    Aleksandra Teofilovic September 28, 2017 2:24 AM Reply
  • Well Evan and team I truly enjoyed this series and I would like to add one thing “always do the things that you feared the most.” Because those are the ones rhat will keep you moving forward in the right direction. Thank you for the wonderful advice. And sharing your thoughts and journey with all of us.#BTA2

    ria rivera September 28, 2017 3:38 AM Reply
  • Love #3

    Angel Million September 28, 2017 4:20 AM Reply
  • Love Dis video.!! I'm ur fan sir.!!

    Manjunath Subbappa September 28, 2017 4:36 AM Reply
  • This channel is great for everyones momentum. Thanks! “fail more“..-I will !

    Gol D. Sekko September 28, 2017 5:08 AM Reply
  • Bro … your dedication to this channel is really changing lives … I started off with $0 watching your channel … and now I'm in my bank account (-$0) But I know that this doesn't define me … my spirit is not even down … I'm not the only one in the world who has been through this … my current state is not my end all be all.Thank you Evan … your channel has been my favorite channel for over a year now 🤘🏾✊🏾🙏🏾

    3colorzzz September 28, 2017 5:17 AM Reply
    • 3colorzzz Take action.

      Bhekisisa Ngomane September 28, 2017 7:25 AM Reply
    • Thank you very much for the appreciation, love and support 3colorzzz. So glad to know that you #Believe in yourself and you'll take action to pursue and achieve your goals. All the best! 🙂 #BTA639 Shine

      Evan Carmichael October 1, 2017 7:56 PM Reply
  • It was amazing , Number 2&5 are very useful for everyone.

    ِMohd AbuSal September 28, 2017 7:27 AM Reply
    • Glad you liked the video. Thank you very much for the comment and for watching Mohd. 🙂 #BelieveNation #BTA639 Shine

      Evan Carmichael October 1, 2017 8:03 PM Reply
  • Agree with your 3rd tip … Btw, good dance moves! 🙂

    sophisticatedtw September 28, 2017 11:26 AM Reply
    • Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching sophisticatedtw. 🙂 Much love. #BelieveNation #BTA639 Shine

      Evan Carmichael October 1, 2017 9:00 PM Reply
  • As stated in one of your previous videos, "Failure is an option, Fear is not."

    Nathanael Morton September 28, 2017 1:34 PM Reply
    • Thank you for the comment and for watching Nathanael. 🙂 #Believe #BTA639 Shine

      Evan Carmichael October 1, 2017 9:50 PM Reply
  • I am going to save this video and remind of people that are giving up after failure! thanks Evan!

    Melvin Huang September 28, 2017 3:06 PM Reply
    • Great to know that Melvin. 🙂 Always #Believe. #BTA639 Shine

      Evan Carmichael October 1, 2017 10:13 PM Reply
  • @evan carmichael its almost like you knew i just failed at what i was trying to do u posted this video in the hour right after i failed

    Sammy Gasana September 28, 2017 5:04 PM Reply
    • I hope the video is helpful to you Sammy. Always #Believe in yourself and keep going. Much love. #BTA639 Shine

      Evan Carmichael October 1, 2017 11:05 PM Reply
  • "Fail your way to success" !!!! One of my favorite books is Failing Forward. The concept makes sense. Ive got to train my mind to see failure as a stepping stone vs. A setback. #BTA8

    Chermylife September 29, 2017 12:04 AM Reply
  • Thanks Evan Carmichael, your channel have inspired me. I was afraid to fail but I will try my best !

    Danny Pham September 30, 2017 8:17 PM Reply
  • Definitely need to have growth mindset, not validation. Like successful people tend to see failure as temporary but learning and grow in process in long run.

    Unknown October 1, 2017 5:22 PM Reply

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