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“You Don’t LEARN by SITTING on the BENCH!” – Matthew Hussey (@matthewhussey) – Top 10 Rules

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✎ Matthew Hussey’s Top 10 Rules For Success: In this video we’re going to learn how to improve our lives by analyzing our take on Hussey’s rules for success.

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1. Just do it!
2. Take Risks
3. Start With Mild Interest
4. You Have To Have Competence
5. Seize every opportunity
6. Use Vulnerability To Stand Out
7. Let Them Hate
8. Find the right role models
9. Focus On Providing Value
10. Have Fun
-= BONUS =-
* Learn to sell
* Ask A Favor
* Have Core Confidence

✎ He runs programs across the globe, helping thousands of men and women reach their true performance potential. He worked with celebrities such as Christina Aguilera. His corporate clients include Hugo Boss, Virgin Gyms, Proctor & Gamble, and many more. He has lectured at Oxford University to the Department of Neuroethics. He has rooted his business in private coaching work. In 2008 Hussey created GetTheGuy, focusing exclusively on relationships. He was a matchmaker on NBC’s Ready for Love. He’s one of the leading experts in the field of human attraction in the U.K. and U.S. He’s New York Times Bestselling author. He’s a columnist for Cosmopolitan Magazine.

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Comments to “You Don’t LEARN by SITTING on the BENCH!” – Matthew Hussey (@matthewhussey) – Top 10 Rules

  • #MatthewHussey changed my thinking ! helped me to move on stand up and leave the bad guy home alone and just live you're life with or without him :*:*"if he is yours let him go breath and if he is yours he will come 2 you if not … he was never yours :* "thank you from the bottom of my heart soul and mind :)peace and love anais_p_joy

    A G August 23, 2017 12:09 AM Reply
  • Second here

    Salma Begum August 23, 2017 12:11 AM Reply
  • " just do it " ! .god bless youkisses from Israel

    A G August 23, 2017 12:15 AM Reply
  • Get out and fail forward!

    Arsenio Buck August 23, 2017 12:16 AM Reply
  • ??????

    Jennifer Shao August 23, 2017 12:31 AM Reply
  • I'm a new subscriber, hello Evan and everybody!

    Jennifer Shao August 23, 2017 12:32 AM Reply
  • Yea u do learn something.. Patience!

    Jay Frm DaAk! August 23, 2017 12:37 AM Reply
  • "It's not enough to have confidence in life. You have to have competence; you have to actually know WHAT you're doing."I really like this quote, and it does resonate with me well as does most of what Matthew is saying in this video. 🙂 I usually live by these words with almost all of the things that I do.

    Da'Shaquan Green August 23, 2017 12:45 AM Reply
  • This guy just changed the perspective of my thinking …..Inception ?

    Anand krishv venkat August 23, 2017 12:47 AM Reply
  • Love Matthew Hussey. Agree on #5 Evan. Seize every opportunity!

    Susan Gardner August 23, 2017 12:57 AM Reply
  • Hi Evan, I contacted you on Facebook

    Adonnis August 23, 2017 1:00 AM Reply
  • numero uno is my personal fav, "Just do it"

    Lehlogonolo Masekela August 23, 2017 1:38 AM Reply
  • This was my suggestion on a previous video. So stoked to see you made it! Thanks Evan <3

    dazzykin August 23, 2017 1:42 AM Reply
  • These videos have been so inspiring to me, I listen daily! Thanks Evan

    Debra Smith August 23, 2017 2:17 AM Reply
  • Number 1, just do it, make it happen.

    Cryptic_Kiiller August 23, 2017 3:14 AM Reply
  • You could do Cesar Millan! He is such a great personality and fought his way up to his life now too.

    Schmerzstillstand August 23, 2017 3:55 AM Reply
  • Been watching Matthew for a while..his advice and podcast is great, excited for this one. Thank you.

    Alejandro Carbs August 23, 2017 4:35 AM Reply
  • "Perfect is the enemy of [the] good"

    I am a young 'entrepreneur" in the automotive industry . My dad started his business with no financial backing and now he works with us daily to teach us everything he knows. I feel like you are doing the same, presenting all of your viewers with many of the things they need to know about business and about life.

    I pre-ordered your book back in october/november and it is great!

    Thank you so much for allowing me to see the light at the end of the tunnel again

    Sandy Sanchez August 23, 2017 6:01 AM Reply
  • Evan, have you ever heard of Denis Waitley? He's written a couple of books, worked with Olympic athletes, CEOs, flew fighter jets, etc.. He is a very interesting and motivating person.

    Marcia Hertz August 23, 2017 6:02 AM Reply
  • 1:57 – "You Don't LEARN by SITTING on the BENCH!" — Matthew Hussey – "You're not my audience." — Matthew Hussey

    Roy Montero August 23, 2017 6:57 AM Reply

    Kefa Ngunjiri August 23, 2017 7:09 AM Reply

    Amos Masithe August 23, 2017 7:25 AM Reply
  • Check out my NEWEST video:

    Evan Carmichael August 23, 2017 9:32 AM Reply
    • ????

      Karolyn Gibson August 27, 2017 6:49 PM Reply
  • Amazing!! i love matt hussey hes one of the persons i follow as well! His tips are amazing and its soo cool that you featured him!! Yoouve made my day!

    Steph Reveron August 23, 2017 11:26 AM Reply
  • i like rule 1 really resonates with me!

    Juan Gomez August 23, 2017 11:27 AM Reply
  • I loved Focus on providing Value!

    Real Favorites August 23, 2017 11:33 AM Reply
  • Top 10 on John Lennon

    Mudadda Mudadda August 23, 2017 12:18 PM Reply
  • Hi Evan!!! Can you please produce Gloria or Emilio Estefan's 10 Rules. .. or their rules combined?? Thank you. I love your videos ? My one word is "best". ?

    Catherine Alba August 23, 2017 12:42 PM Reply
  • "Focus on providing value"

    Visakh Varma August 23, 2017 1:21 PM Reply
  • Seize every opportunity: "Do stuff to get more stuff" & Let them hate, you are not trying to please everyone. Two tips that speak for volumes. You have to do stuff mo matter how small to get more stuff. This is like the snowball effect as the little things build up to better things. Also, let them hate you are not trying to please everyone. Unfortunately, their are people and companies that are trying to be everything to everyone.  Doing so is not genuine or sincere. I like that Mattehw alluded to the fact that if you only get that one person to like or follow,  so be it.  Lose the popularity persona and focus on quality.

    Fredrick Lee August 23, 2017 1:39 PM Reply
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    James Lewis August 23, 2017 1:44 PM Reply
  • "start with a mild interest" because people do pressure themselves to love only one thing. what i have learned in my life is that you need to room for flexibility and growth.

    Jen AB August 23, 2017 1:51 PM Reply
  • Yes….Focus on Providing Value

    Bandana Kitchen August 23, 2017 2:40 PM Reply
  • My take away. "You can't please everyone" – So, someone rejects you … it's ok, you're not their cup of tea. Love it!

    Daily EncourageMints August 23, 2017 2:56 PM Reply
  • Focus on providing value, yes indeed! August 23, 2017 3:13 PM Reply
  • #5 Seize every opportunity. Make every opportunity count and expand it to the next opportunity.

    LaTrenda George August 23, 2017 3:23 PM Reply
  • Number 5 is my favorite as well.

    Iamsbritt August 23, 2017 4:04 PM Reply
  • Hands down….that number 5 is everything!!!! Its the TRUE definition of BELIEVE 🙂

    MsLeee89 August 23, 2017 4:16 PM Reply
  • "It's not enough to have confidence, you need competence!"

    Alexya Irvin August 23, 2017 4:24 PM Reply
  • You have to find a way to always improve and create your own success and not watch how someone else creates theirs

    Calisthenics Journey August 23, 2017 4:25 PM Reply
  • Very good video! Do 10 rules to success with Wentworth Miller please!!!

    andre dias August 23, 2017 5:31 PM Reply
  • Great video, thanks for putting it together.

    Maria Garcia August 23, 2017 6:29 PM Reply
  • I like this one

    ronaldo fan August 23, 2017 7:16 PM Reply
  • Another great compilation. Thanks Evan! Can you tell me what you use to get clips of other videos like this?

    Gabrielle Angel Lilly August 24, 2017 8:35 AM Reply
  • Best video of Mathew ever! Thanks for sharing

    leena Vie August 24, 2017 1:24 PM Reply
  • i have really loved this channel of evan carmichael…keep it up brother

    Samrat Dhital August 24, 2017 2:16 PM Reply
  • HO MAN !! #SHOUTOUT Thank you Evan!, was ages ago that I suggested Matt for the 10 rules video series! Think he gives the audience a lot of value and wisdom. Not far off 1M now, great to see 🙂

    Ho Man August 24, 2017 4:47 PM Reply
  • He is very handsome n I love d way he speaks!!! Ya Just Do it!!! U learn from ur mistakes!!!

    FeelGood Within August 24, 2017 6:16 PM Reply
  • a wise man and so young,so attractive..respect!

    be the change you wanna see in the world August 24, 2017 7:48 PM Reply
  • Great video ! I would love to hear from Dita von Teese

    tonjareneehall August 25, 2017 1:39 AM Reply
  • His retreats in Florida are truly life changing, excellent value and so much fun. If you get the chance go for it. I've never looked back.

    Davina Fereday August 25, 2017 7:05 AM Reply
  • " don´t let the perfect be the enemy of the good "

    sayu2222 August 25, 2017 10:57 AM Reply
  • Loved this

    Sheryl Marasi August 25, 2017 11:38 AM Reply
  • Could you do August Alsina or Keke Palmer ? ❤?

    Alexis Johnson August 25, 2017 4:17 PM Reply
  • Would you do Dr. Dre.

    Tara Collins August 25, 2017 7:59 PM Reply
  • Bernie Sanders!!

    Fridaber August 25, 2017 10:25 PM Reply
  • This guy makes narcissistic girls feel like they are victims.

    Just A Tip August 26, 2017 12:38 AM Reply
    • who hurt u man

      Gawdessxo August 26, 2017 8:03 PM Reply
  • Wow just wow!!

    The Purple Bucket August 26, 2017 3:27 AM Reply
  • Lately I've been trying to change my list of values to optimize my life. I realized I had "have fun" too low on the list. So for me, having fun not only needs to be moved up but it has to be worked on just like everything else ?

    Esoteric Coaching August 26, 2017 4:20 AM Reply
  • Any retreats in England ?

    Linz Let it be August 26, 2017 7:45 AM Reply
  • Really. Please do Russell Brunson and Jason Capital.

    Momo Maximilian August 26, 2017 1:09 PM Reply
  • Really, really love no. 3. "Sart with mild interest". That's how I got from "Hm, I like writing, I can see this going somewhere", to having a blog that is on its way to success AND two books in the making.

    Maya Lazar August 26, 2017 2:11 PM Reply
  • #4

    tiffinay Hall August 26, 2017 7:14 PM Reply
    • Thanks for watching tiffinay. 🙂 #BTA604 Shine

      Evan Carmichael August 27, 2017 11:16 PM Reply
  • does he have a book that I can buy?

    AT1234 August 26, 2017 10:14 PM Reply
    • AT1234 yea he does, get the guy

      Amanitaaish Aish August 26, 2017 11:08 PM Reply
  • This guy is just amazing, the way he puts his points and connects. He is very good looking and charming while being so young and insightful

    Amanitaaish Aish August 26, 2017 11:09 PM Reply
  • This guy is ugly

    Icemissa August 27, 2017 2:42 AM Reply
    • Icemissa Are you fucking blind?!

      Amy Dassi August 28, 2017 10:47 PM Reply
  • The thing with Matthew is that he is "Practical"!! Very few people are genuinely practical and make sense! Every statement he makes and every advice he gives makes sense..Its not like that I agree with everything he says but mostly he makes sense and advice actually work not only in dating and relationships but Life in general! He is indeed Amazing..Thank you Evan for choosing him in the category 🙂

    Paridhi sharma August 27, 2017 4:26 AM Reply
  • Marie Forleo

    Thuong Vo August 27, 2017 8:33 AM Reply
  • Number 8 was my favorite, because too many people always try to model other people too much and get disappointed when they can't achieve beyond the teachings the teachers they learned from. This is why Bruce Lee express he had no style, but what he really meant was once you've learned from someone else then to excel beyond you must seek your own way in order to honestly express yourself – you can't be the best version of yourself if you continue following others!

    Vex T August 27, 2017 8:39 AM Reply
  • Been following Matthew for quite some times and you made a very good points from his teaching. Thanks so much!! ❤

    Martha Octavia August 27, 2017 11:47 PM Reply
  • Are you related to Orlando bloom?

    Dee Depp August 28, 2017 12:07 AM Reply
  • I love Matthew Hussey! Thanks for posting Evan 🙂

    KF G August 28, 2017 11:45 AM Reply
  • 🙂

    Cosimo Marraffa August 28, 2017 12:00 PM Reply
  • ONE Z GOT TO MOVE THE BUT WE CALL IT KARMA Theory so move and see the world where you live to do some thing to make the world around you a bit better.

    Geetanjali .k.khanna August 28, 2017 12:18 PM Reply
  • Matthew!
    Keep doing everything what you're great at!
    You are changing the lives and relationships of so many women, and men, that listen to you for the better.

    Thank you so much for the helping hand that so many deserve. And helping me not only apply the knowledge that works! But to help my friends, family and even strangers also.
    Stay fabulous!

    Dorottya Cranney August 28, 2017 3:43 PM Reply
  • Wow, Matthew is now put on the map! Evan made a vid on him!! Well, didn't know he was even a ny bestselling writer. Anyhoo, Mat is making an inspirational, fun video on dating and life thereof. Love you both!

    The Heathen August 28, 2017 5:40 PM Reply
  • I've been watching M.Hussey's videos for some six months now, and I appreciate him more and more.

    Ro Pi August 29, 2017 12:09 AM Reply
  • If your acting vulnerably, then your being artificial and not vulnerable

    Jacqui Reeves August 29, 2017 12:49 AM Reply

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